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Proverbs 17:5


The sentiment expressed is highly sarcastic, mocking, and satirical, rather than genuinely mournful.

Here is a breakdown of the tone and intent:

  • Feigned Sympathy: The message adopts the format and language of a traditional obituary ("A very sad thing happened," "May Rob and Michele rest in peace"), but uses this framework to deliver insults.

  • Political Ridicule: The text creates a fictional scenario where the "cause of death" is "Trump Derangement Syndrome" (TDS). This is a pejorative term used to mock people who strongly dislike Donald Trump.

  • Personal Insult: It describes the subject (Rob Reiner) as "tortured," "struggling," and only "once very talented," implying he has lost his talent and mental stability due to his political views.

  • Partisan Praise: While mocking Reiner, the text simultaneously offers high praise for the Trump Administration ("Golden Age of America"), highlighting that the text is a piece of political commentary rather than a death announcement.

In summary, the message uses dark humor and irony to ridicule Rob Reiner’s political activism, framing his anti-Trump stance as a fatal "disease."

Context of the Message

The text of the statement released by Donald Trump on December 15, 2025, following the death of Rob Reiner and his wife on December 14) serves two functions typical of Trump's communication strategy but alien to traditional presidential communications:

  1. Reframing Reality: It reframes a tragic event (death) as a consequence of political opposition ("Trump Derangement Syndrome").

  2. Center-Stage Focus: It pivots the attention away from the deceased and back to the President's own success ("Golden Age," "surpassed all goals").

Summary: While this behavior violates the historical decorum of the institution, it is a standard and expected feature of Donald Trump’s personal brand of politics.

In the last quarter-century (2000–2025), behavior of this specific nature—publicly ridiculing a rival immediately after their death—is extremely rare among high-ranking government executives or major corporate CEOs in Western democracies.

However, there is a distinct pattern of this behavior emerging from a specific archetype of leader: the populist "strongman" or the "unfiltered" founder-CEO. These figures often build their brand on shattering "political correctness," which includes discarding the social contract of respecting the dead.

Here are the most prominent examples and alignments from the last 25 years:

1. Government Executives (The "Strongman" Archetype)

The most direct precedents come from leaders who utilize performative cruelty to signal dominance and "authenticity" to their base.

  • Donald Trump (United States):

    • John McCain (2018/2019): After the Senator's death, Trump repeatedly complained about McCain, stating, "I was never a fan of John McCain and I never will be," and mocked the funeral proceedings.

    • John Dingell (2019): At a rally, Trump suggested the late Congressman might be in hell ("Maybe he's looking up") shortly after his passing.

    • Colin Powell (2021): Issued a statement one day after Powell's death calling him a "classic RINO" who "made plenty of mistakes," adding a sarcastic "May he rest in peace!" that mirrors the tone of the Rob Reiner post.

  • Jair Bolsonaro (Brazil):

    • COVID-19 Victims (2020): When asked about the rising death toll in his country, he famously replied, "E daí?" ("So what?"), followed by "I am not a gravedigger." While not a specific rival, it demonstrated the same refusal to perform public mourning.

  • Rodrigo Duterte (Philippines):

    • Various Critics: Frequently spoke ill of the dead, including justifying the killing of journalists ("Just because you're a journalist you are not exempted from assassination") and mocking the rape and murder of an Australian missionary.

2. Private Sector Executives (The "Edgelord" CEO)

In the corporate world, this behavior is almost non-existent among traditional "Fortune 500" CEOs because it creates massive liability and brand damage. However, the rise of the "Founder-Controlled" tech CEO has introduced leaders who bypass PR departments to tweet impulsively.

  • Elon Musk (Tesla/SpaceX/X):

    • While he rarely attacks dead rivals immediately, he aligns with the style of the message (trolling, sarcasm, using "illness" as an insult). For example, mocking the "woke mind virus" (similar to "TDS") or attacking a rescue diver as a "pedo guy." His takeover of Twitter (X) normalized the kind of "shitposting" style seen in the Reiner text as a form of executive communication.

  • Martin Shkreli (Turing Pharmaceuticals):

    • Before his imprisonment, he utilized livestreams and social media to relentlessly mock critics, journalists, and politicians, exhibiting the same lack of filter and delight in outrage.

Conclusion

The text represents the culmination of a trend started around 2015. It marks a shift where "mourning" is no longer seen as a neutral, human act, but as a political weakness. The only high-ranking executive who consistently aligns with this specific behavior—using a death announcement to launch a political attack—is Donald Trump himself. In the private sector, only "untouchable" founder-CEOs with absolute voting control (like Musk or Zuckerberg) typically have the job security to survive issuing such a statement, though they usually stop short of mocking the dead.

Whether this behavior should be admired or modeled is a profound question that touches on ethics, leadership, and the current crisis in masculinity.

While some online subcultures actively celebrate this "unfiltered" aggression as a sign of strength, nearly all traditional frameworks of character, psychology, and leadership suggest that modeling this behavior is detrimental to both the individual and society.

Here is an analysis of why this behavior appeals to some young men, and why it is ultimately a "false positive" for strength.

1. The Trap: Why it Looks Like Strength

For many young men, particularly those feeling disenfranchised or critical of modern cultural shifts, figures like Donald Trump or "edgelord" CEOs can seem appealing because they project dominance.

  • Rejection of Norms: Breaking social taboos (like speaking ill of the dead) signals that the person is "above the rules."

  • Perceived Authenticity: Cruelty is often mistaken for honesty. The logic goes: "Everyone else is faking politeness; he is saying what he really thinks."

  • Invulnerability: Mocking a dead rival suggests that you are untouchable and that your enemies cannot hurt you, even from the grave.

2. The Reality: Why it is Weakness

From a developmental and ethical standpoint, this behavior is widely considered a failure of character rather than a triumph of it.

  • Emotional Fragility: Psychologists often note that the inability to show grace or silence in the face of death signals deep insecurity. A leader secure in their own power does not need to "win" against a corpse. Punching down (at someone who cannot respond) is historically viewed as the act of a bully, not a warrior.

  • The "Zero-Sum" Worldview: It teaches young men that life is purely a combat zone where empathy is a liability. This mindset leads to isolation, as it erodes the ability to form deep, trusting relationships.

  • Lack of Discipline: Stoicism—a philosophy often cited by men seeking self-improvement—teaches restraint. A Stoic (like Marcus Aurelius) would argue that giving in to the impulse to insult an enemy is a loss of self-control. True strength is having the power to crush someone but choosing mercy or silence instead.

3. The Professional Consequences

It is critical to note that the individuals who exhibit this behavior (Presidents, billionaire founders) are outliers. They are protected by immense wealth or unique political office.

  • For a typical young man entering the workforce, modeling this behavior is often career suicide.

  • In 99% of professional environments, displaying a lack of empathy, inability to "read the room," or prioritizing personal grievances over team cohesion will lead to being fired or ostracized.

4. A Better Model

If the goal is to model "manhood" or "strength," the counter-model to the "grieving bully" is the "Quiet Professional" or the "Magnanimous Victor."

  • Magnanimity: The ability to be generous, forgiving, and noble, especially towards a rival. This was once the "gold standard" of masculine leadership (e.g., General Grant allowing Confederate soldiers to keep their horses after the Civil War).

  • Integrity: Standing for your principles without needing to demean others to validate them.

Summary

Admiring this behavior mistakes impulse for instinct and cruelty for courage. While it may offer a momentary thrill of dominance, it models a way of living that is lonely, defensive, and ultimately destructive to the social fabric that young men will one day need to rely on.


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